Does it get get better as time goes by.

For many stepfathers we are on a journey with our families, it takes time for everyone to adjust, the more rigid your viewpoints the longer and harder it is.

I have found to let the the little things slide past and let my wife hold the primary role of parent and I support her.

There are times I may step in, that is on the occasions when things are getting out of hand.

To often we make things more complex than they really are.

A Zen saying that I like is "The quieter you become,the more you are able to hear."